hi i'm either really sad and sappy, or i'm suddenly a 25 y/o adult with a mission to get her life together. i'm still 20 though, and sad and sappy but mildy responsible.

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8.21.2015 @ 11:15
A lot of my friends have been talking and going on about how the people around us have changed, because of the different situations and circumstances they have been thrown into. I think it was only then that I had an epiphany about the whole notion of changing for the better/worse:

When someone changes – whether in character or morals – it would never be considered bad, on their standards. When we say we don’t like something, it is almost always based on our own perception and standards of how we would like for it to be. 

I was basing his shift in morals on my standards, and not his; and I think that this has made me think a lot about how when we say we do not care, we are simply saying that we do not care enough for something that is not good enough, based on our own expectations of it. We do care, but just not enough for us to want to change it, yet enough for us to grumble about how it can be better.

Better on our own standards. 
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